I just got off a great call with a brilliant woman. She has been working through some tough stuff in her life having recently divorced. But she is powerful. A powerful attractor probably like you.

She went out to eat at her favorite sushi restaurant last week. Friday is his night so she usually treats herself to something special. She got there a little early and the place was completely empty. The waiter sat her right in the center of the sushi counter. She got a beer, started to relax and then a horrible thing happened.

The waiter sat not one but two affectionate “dating” couples on either side of her. Murmuring voices, giggles, long tanned legs, business suits, freshly styled hair and let’s just say love was definitely in the air. She was trapped. And she was MAD. How could he be so rude? How could that waiter not have noticed she was alone at dinner on a Friday night? Did he really think it was appropriate to rub her nose in her “singleness”?

Hmmmm…I know she was angry, but maybe she just didn’t realize the greater lesson going on…

When you are eating alone at your favorite restaurant and you get sat in between 2 cute loving and affectionate couples don’t blame the waiter!! Look instead at what you are engaging with. What are you thinking about? What are you working through? The Universe is here to support you, which means sometimes you get a specific energy over and over again until you can shift through it.

Rather than react to what you see, take a step back and consider what the quantum side of life is doing. Is it offering you an opportunity to further examine your relationships past and present? Maybe you see yourself in these couples. Maybe now you can see love from a new perspective. How are they interacting? Is that who you want to be? Is it who you thought you were? Are you getting ready to move on to a more authentic relationship for you? What is the Universal message for you here?? (Psst- those are always positive and affirming, btw)

At the end of our call she did admit this experience showed her things she really wanted to change in her next relationship and she said she had been thinking about dating again. The Universe knows.

You attract everything in your life. EVERYTHING! The fun and the not-so-fun. And never as punishment. Life is just a game we are here to play. There is no good or bad, just experience.

Instead of asking: “Why am I attracting things I don’t want?” Try looking at it this way: “Why do I want the things I’ve attracted? What do I get from this situation? How does this help me elevate myself?”

Search a little, you will find an answer. Or find a mentor or coach to help you see these things. The Universe is always supporting you. Maybe just a tiny change in your perspective is the key to unlocking a big shift in your life.

Much Love!!
Penelope Pauley